St. Paul American Coptic Orthodox Church of Houston

H.G. Bishop Gregory explores the significance of Saint Mary’s visitation to Elizabeth, focusing on the spiritual meaning behind Mary’s rising to the hills as a symbol of ascending to higher levels of spiritual life. He emphasizes the need for Christians to spiritually arise, letting worldly concerns diminish in importance as they grow closer to God.Bishop Gregory highlights three aspects of Mary’s service: taking initiative without being asked, serving with enthusiasm and haste, and leaving her comfort zone despite personal challenges. Drawing from Church Fathers and modern examples, he encourages believers to serve others actively and joyfully.The talk concludes with a story from Metropolitan Anthony Bloom, illustrating how love and mutual respect within a community can revive faith and draw others in, urging Christians to see and serve one another as messengers of God.#ChristianService #SaintMaryVisitation #SpiritualGrowth #ServingWithJoy #FaithInAction #OrthodoxChristianity #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Fr. Matthias Shehad presents an overview of The ARK program, focusing on long-term parenting strategies based on Orthodox Christian principles. He emphasizes the importance of teaching children godly values and fostering strong relationships among kids, parents, and church servants. Fr. Matthias discusses how parenting is not merely about controlling behavior but guiding children to internalize faith and responsibility for their actions.He addresses common parental challenges such as impatience, distractions, and reacting to embarrassment, urging parents to prioritize love, consistency, and patience. The talk highlights the need for unified parenting approaches and stresses that children’s struggles are opportunities for growth rather than failures to judge.Drawing from the book "Parenting Toward the Kingdom" by Philip Mamalakis, Fr. Matthias underscores the significance of long-term goals, allowing children to learn from consequences, and maintaining a supportive community to nurture both parents and children in their faith journey.#OrthodoxParenting #ChristianParenting #FaithBasedParenting #ParentingWithPurpose #TheARKProgram #FrMatthiasShehad #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Peter Awad discusses parenting with a focus on patience, tolerance, and the spiritual development of children. He emphasizes the importance of adjusting expectations, recognizing learning as a process, and using challenges as opportunities to teach virtues such as patience and honesty.Peter highlights the crucial role of modeling holiness at home, noting that children learn prayer, Bible reading, fasting, and church attendance primarily through observing their parents. He addresses the significant spiritual influence of fathers, citing studies that show children are more likely to attend church regularly when their fathers participate actively.The talk explores practical ways parents can embody their faith, from prayer and confession to interactions in church and family life. Peter stresses that instilling a lifelong faith requires consistent example-setting by both parents, particularly the father, to nurture enduring spiritual growth in their children.#ChristianParenting #FaithInFamily #SpiritualGrowth #ModelingHoliness #ParentingWithFaith #ChildrenAndFaith #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Victor Garas, PhD, discusses the principles of parenting from a faith-based perspective, focusing on the difference between reacting and responding to children's behavior. He emphasizes the importance of discipline that is firm, patient, and loving, aiming to teach values rather than merely stopping misbehavior in the short term. Victor explores the need to understand the root cause of a child’s actions, the value of setting clear consequences, and the role of teaching decision-making skills to foster long-term growth.He highlights the balance between firmness and gentleness, the importance of avoiding reactive punishment, and how parents can create a framework for children to learn from their mistakes. Throughout, the goal is to raise children with respect, responsibility, and godly character. Victor also reflects on practical examples and cultural challenges in disciplining children with love.This session includes thoughtful reflections and prayers on parenting and spiritual growth.#ChristianParenting #FaithBasedParenting #Discipleship #ParentingWithLove #SpiritualGrowth #GodlyCharacter #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

In this session, Bassem Iskander explores the reasons behind children’s misbehavior and offers guidance on how parents can respond rather than react. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the distinction between seeking attention and seeking connection, highlighting that children's misbehavior often reflects a deeper need for connection. Bassem discusses key factors such as developmental stages, temperament differences, modeling behavior, and emotional distress as underlying causes of misbehavior.He also shares practical approaches for parents, including the need for clarity, calmness, firmness, and consistency in discipline, and stresses the value of building strong, positive connections with children during good behavior to encourage long-term growth. The talk underscores how these parenting principles align with fostering healthy relationships within families and the church community. This discussion supports parents in developing thoughtful strategies for nurturing their children’s growth and character.#ChristianParenting #ChildDiscipline #FaithAndFamily #ParentingWithFaith #BuildingConnection #ChristianFamily #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Fr. Gerges Gad explores practical approaches to handling dishonesty among children and youth, focusing on the causes of lying such as fear, pride, and laziness. He discusses how servants and parents often react, highlighting the importance of calm confrontation and building strong relationships to encourage honesty. Fr. Gerges emphasizes distinguishing between punishing the wrongdoing and the lie itself, while maintaining love and support to foster trust.He addresses how lying evolves with age and describes various types of lies, including white lies and cries for help. The talk offers strategies for nurturing children’s emotional expression, respecting boundaries, and allowing them to fail safely at home. Fr. Gerges connects these parenting challenges to spiritual growth, underscoring the need for a foundation of love and open communication to guide children toward truthful living.#ChristianParenting #RaisingHonestKids #SpiritualGrowth #FaithAndFamily #HandlingDishonesty #FrGergesGad #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Victor Garas, PhD discusses the challenges of parenting in a cultural context different from one’s upbringing, emphasizing the importance of adapting parenting styles to the current environment rather than repeating past generational patterns. He addresses common parental reactions to children’s struggles, such as rushing to solve problems or ignoring them, and highlights the need to allow children to experience difficulties to build resilience and life skills.Victor also explores how parents must stay close to their children to provide appropriate guidance and emotional support while setting limits that help children learn and grow. He reflects on new challenges faced by today’s youth, including social media pressures, and encourages awareness of the psychological impact of parenting decisions. The talk offers perspectives on navigating cultural shifts and fostering healthy development in children within the framework of faith.#ChristianParenting #FaithAndFamily #ParentingChallenges #ChristianFamilyLife #RaisingChildrenInFaith #SpiritualGrowthInParenting #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Fr. Younan William discusses the important distinction between feelings and behaviors, emphasizing that while children and adults alike cannot always control their feelings, they are responsible for their actions. He explores strategies for parenting that involve acknowledging children’s emotions without condoning inappropriate behavior, setting clear and consistent limits, and encouraging children to think for themselves.Fr. Younan highlights the role of empathy and respectful communication in responding to children’s feelings and pushback, while stressing that resistance to limits should not result in changing boundaries. He explains how consequences, when logical and related, teach valuable life lessons, and underscores the importance of consistency and firmness balanced with genuine love.This talk offers guidance on managing emotions, setting boundaries, and fostering responsibility in children to prepare them for adulthood. It also addresses how adults can apply these principles in their own spiritual and emotional growth.#ChristianParenting #FaithAndFamily #EmotionalResponsibility #SpiritualGrowth #ParentingWithGrace #ChristianEmotions #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Fr. James Gendi explores the biblical and Christian principle of obedience, emphasizing its role in parenting and spiritual growth. He discusses how children learn obedience first within the family, preparing them to respect authority figures and ultimately God. Fr. James highlights the importance of teaching obedience without control or domination, balancing authority with empathy and understanding.The talk addresses common parenting challenges, such as listening actively to children, nurturing respectful communication, and responding thoughtfully to misbehavior. Fr. James stresses that listening is essential for teaching decision-making and building trust without necessarily granting leniency. He also explains how honoring parents relates to spiritual blessings and living a fulfilled life.Throughout, Fr. James offers practical advice on fostering a culture of listening, setting appropriate limits, and modeling respectful interactions between parents and children to guide their development in faith and character.#ChristianParenting #TeachObedience #FaithAndFamily #RespectAuthority #SpiritualGrowth #ListeningInParenting #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org

Eric Tadros explores the question of how to love God more by focusing on the Orthodox perspective of growing in relationship with God rather than solely on salvation. He emphasizes the importance of humility and awareness of one’s sins as the first step toward deeper love for God, illustrated by the story of the sinful woman in Luke 7. Eric explains how repentance and confession open the way to experience God’s mercy, which fuels our love for Him.He also discusses the second commandment to love our neighbor with agape love—sacrificial, unconditional, limitless, and willful—as a vital expression of loving God. Finally, Eric highlights the role of the Divine Liturgy as the central act of worship where believers enter into communion with Christ, strengthening their love for God.Drawing on Scripture and teachings from Church Fathers, Eric encourages daily reflection, confession, and participation in the liturgy to continually grow in love for God and others.#LoveGodMore #OrthodoxChristianity #DivineLiturgy #RepentanceAndConfession #AgapeLove #SpiritualGrowth #StPaulHouston #Coptic #FrMatthiasSubscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhoustonFollow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhoustonFollow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhoustonVisit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org